Assalamualaikum...
In our daily life, we will not escape from any problem and in other time we need to make decision in resolving a problem.
1- IDENTIFYING OPPORTUNITIES AND DIAGNOSING PROBLEMS
The situation : My mom and dad just have bought a new car for me as a birthday present. They want me to take a driving license but I feel so doubtful to drive the car because of increases of accident rates in Malaysia. In that case, I think it was so scary :-(
2- IDENTIFYING OBJECTIVES (goals)
My mom and dad said it is easily for me to going anywhere by own transport since my age almost to twentieth.
3- GENERATING ALTERNATIVES (by creativity and imagination)
I have 3 alternatives that I need to consider:
i- follow my parents request
ii- follow my heart - I say NO
iii- just keep quiet and say nothing
4- EVALUATING ALTERNATIVES (+ve and -ve by cost, risks, benefits and quality desire)
+ve
i- my parents will happy with my decisions and i can go anywhere.
-ve
i- safety risk on road
+ve
ii- my heart will satisfy with my own decision in saying NO
-ve
ii- my parents are disappointed
+ve
iii- none
-ve
iii- no decision can be made
5- REACHING DECISIONS (give the reason)
After I considering all those alternatives, I prefer to choose to follow my parents will because I want they are happy with my decision and I can try new experience in life.
6- CHOOSING IMPLEMENTATION STRATEGIES
Firstly, I must think positively. There's a will, there's a way. BE BRAVE !
Secondly, I need to take a driving license.
Lastly, do not miss to always prays to ALLAH so that the decision have been made is the best and I can face it calmly.
7- MONITORING AND EVALUATING
From the implementation strategies, my parents are so happy. I have my own car and hopefully I will not to burden them.
We hope with these steps can help us in making the best decision in our daily life :)
We hope with these steps can help us in making the best decision in our daily life :)
No comments:
Post a Comment